But don't whip out a book of pictures of your grandkids, said Kentuckian Mary Riggs LeBus, a Tates Creek High grad who organizes the Class of 1976's reunions. Mingle. Reunite.

DEAR MISS MANNERS: At my husband’s 20-year reunion, I wrote “Sam’s wife” on my name tag. I knew that only three people there knew me, and that no one else would likely remember my name the ...