Neumann suggests the following messages are good examples to get you started when thinking of condolence messages: I am so sorry to hear about [insert the name of the person who has died].

It is fine to be inspired by examples of condolence messages, but it always best to include personal memories or references. It is also best to avoid the cliches like, "I'm sorry for your loss".

Nothing can make you panic quicker than trying to write a sympathy message for your funeral flowers order. Whether you're sending flowers directly to the bereaved family or are ordering one of ...

A letter writer is noticing they’re not receiving acknowledgment letters after sending out thoughtful condolence notes.

But as you are careful about expressing condolences, Miss Manners assumes that your husband already sent such a letter. DEAR MISS MANNERS: At casual restaurants and upscale establishments alike ...