My husband believes that when we receive an indivisible gift, both he and I should write separate thank-you note messages.

both he and I should write separate thank-you note messages (albeit on a single card). I would prefer that we send a single message, using “we” in the note (e.g., we love X), with one person ...

both he and I should write separate thank-you note messages (albeit on a single card). I would prefer that we send a single message, using “we” in the note (e.g., we love X), with one person ...