But there’s one toxic argument style that psychotherapists say can be the most unhealthy, unhelpful and damaging to your relationships: triangulation ... with (for example, to limit the number ...

Here are some examples of variations on the triangulation theme. Flipping the geometry of the problem upside down or backwards leaves the problem essentially unchanged. Likewise labelling the lines ...

An annual Christmas showdown with tricky relatives may feel inevitable, but you can avoid making it worse by refusing to get involved in a triangulation trap. Christmas can be the most wonderful ...