I feel he needs to grow up and stop jumping from job to job, house to house, friend to friend and calling me for help.

I have three kids. One of them, "Jake," is in his early 20s. He has medical issues, so he has always been babied. Jake has struggled with jobs, drugs, friends and places to live. Somehow, he always ends up back with me.

I know I’m an enabler. I have kicked him out before, but I never give up on him. I try to be a positive role model because his father has never been in his life. Due to his past mishaps, Jake has wronged a lot of people who now shun him.