Grant was simply doing what we all do when we're on a first date: exploring chemistry. Sometimes, it doesn't matter how great the flirting is — or how compatible your life goals are — if the kiss ultimately ends up feeling off. Someone plunging their tongue in your mouth is a red flag you unfortunately might not be able to ignore.

Fans accuse Grant Ellis of chasing fame after his song Party Girls was dropped just before The Bachelor Season 29 premiere.